What is one question you hate to be asked? Explain.
The word hate is not appropriate as it is in the frequency that invites catastrophe. The word explain is a little bit better as it gives the opportunity to communicate. But still it is not perfect. Asking someone, to be diplomatic and not to use the word demanding, to explain is not including you who asked in the conversation. On the contrary it is positioning you in the place of the judge. To judge is easy, that is why so many of us first judge and then think.
Nothing is to be hated. Absolutely nothing. Conversation between people is normal and should be, as the nature originally projected, calm and based on exchanging ideas! Your idea and my idea. There is nothing to hate. There is only TO LOVE. To love diversity and to built the humanity on that.
Hate is based on antagonism of taking someone else’s space. Usually the hate arise when you feel that your space is endangered. When I say space I mean everything that you are made of. Inside out. However that presentation which was the cause for immeasurable human suffering is slowly but irrevocably disappearing as instead of space, THE TIME IS COMMING INTO THE CONSCIOUSNESS OF MANKIND and overtaking the space. Space as we knew it is becoming insignificant.
I wrote about it in my 2017 post TIME IS LIFE=LIFE IS TIME(the whole essay can be reached in my eBook Quarantine Diaries and Beyond) where I got a comment from one of my good friend saying that TIME is money. I told him then and it is becoming increasingly apparent that TIME IS LIFE NOT THE MONEY, sharing with him this short poem of mine
Amnesia
“Did you sleep well?”, she asked.
Yes! Fine! Exactly as needed.
Then I was thinking
Looking at the other side of the bed
Where did you disappear?!
And realized that you are
In your home town
And that I briefly had amnesia.
D.K.
The main question, after all, is how DO YOU WANT BE?
Two self-explanatory proverbs are showing the affinity of flies and bees.
“He goes as a fly to shit”
and
“He goes as a bee to honey!”
Up to you to choose your path! The path of love, of balance of interests, of communication, of compassion OF PROGRESS takes you to honey.
The hate option takes you somewhere else.
So much hope that we can talk about honey!
Darko Richard Lancelot
March 6, 2024
Philosophyofgoodnews.com
Connect and Respect

